About mizroady

Hi my name is Narita. I am married to an amazing, godly patient and wonderful man. I am the mother of 3 sweet loving daughters, 3 fantastic loving, sons-in-love (instead of sons-in-law) and grandmother of 6 precious grandchildren. I am also a pastor's wife and care for my elderly mother in our home. I have been an empty nester for almost 9 years and still adjusting. I publish a monthly article in the Oklahoma Baptist, the paper for the Missionary Baptist Association of Oklahoma. I have writing for them since 1993. I love reading, writing, teaching, and crafts. I know the Lord as my personal Savior and have been His child since 1976. I strive to be all God wants me to be in my life and learn all I can about His Word. It gives me great joy to be a Titus 2 woman, sharing with women what God has taught me. I want to be God's instrument in introducing people of all ages to His saving grace, and helping women have strong marriages and be godly mothers. I also want to teach children how to love the Lord and apply His Word to their lives. I am a newby blogger and excited about this new adventure. I aspire to write some children's books and have them published.

Pretty Little Pieces By Carmen Schober

I never like to leave a negative review, but I have to be honest. I choose Christian fiction because I only want to read things that are in agreement with God’s Word and His standards.  This book did not fit those guidelines for me.

There is fornication, drinking, going to bars, drunkenness and other unacceptable behavior.  There was also a word used that I consider cursing. Such things should not be a part of a Christian novel. 

God and prayer are mentioned but it does seemly have nothing to do with the immoral behavior of the characters.  They appear to be Christians in name only.  Due to these things I was unable to bring myself to finish reading the book.

This book was very disappointing.   

I received this book from Bethany House thorough LibraryThing Early Readers Program in exchange for an honest review.  The opinions stated are my own.

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Her Heart’s Desire  By Shelley Shepard Gray

Mary Margaret has decided to step out of her comfort zone and go on a trip alone to Florida.  She meets three other young Amish women and they find they have a lot more in common that just their faith.  They have experiences they have never had even a little romance thrown in.  Their adventure turns into one of deep self-examination, seeing themselves as they truly are.

I admired Mary Margaret’s courage and courageous spirit to venture out and do something she has never done, especially after always being in such a sheltered environment.  I loved Nancy, the caring, joyful energetic Inn’s owner. The description of her homemade goodies made my mouth water.

 As a read about their stay there, and excursions I felt myself relaxing and thinking what how wonderful a vacation like that would be.  I would have like to have known more about the quaint shops and what the bought!  It made me think of some of our family get away to Galveston Island. 

Jayson, also Amish, is there visiting a friend.  He and Mary are immediately attracted to each other.  Their relationship quickly turns into romance.  An unexpected surprise visited seems to threaten Mary’s idyllic trip, but God has other plans.

What really hit home for me about each of the characters they were all trying to escape some problem in their lives. In reality they may have physically removed themselves but the root cause was still there.  By stepping away they were able to search their hearts and see their struggles were within themselves not circumstances or others. The story has many beautiful lessons about yielding to God’s guidance and living by faith not sight. . Looking forward to the next book!

I received this book from Revell Publishing in exchange for an honest review. The opinions stated are my own.

The Rose and the Thistle By Laura Frantz

Ms. Frantz makes history more than dates and battles.  When reading her books I always learn about a new era in history that I was not familiar with.  Her characters not only make history come alive, but give me a deeper understanding as to what it was like to be live during that time.  Her descriptiveness of their surroundings, traditions and way of life allow me to be a part of what is happening.

The setting is Scotland the year 1715. It was a year of great upheaval and danger between the Catholics and Protestants (Jacobite’s).

Duke of Northumberland was a devout Catholic as was his daughter Lady Blythe.  This made him an enemy of the king.  Knowing the danger, his number one desire was to protect his daughter Lady Blythe.  He arranged with her godfather, Lord Wedderburn for her to take refuge with him and his family.  It is shortly before Lord Wedderburn dies that his son Everard and succeeding laird learns of this arrangement.  His family was loyal to their Protestant faith.  A bit of a sticky wicket!

He wasn’t very pleased with the news but didn’t have time to ponder it.  His father hadn’t even been buried and late one night Lady Blythe was rushed to the castle after an attack on their estate. Talk about an awkward situation!  They couldn’t have had more opposite religious or political positions!

I hurt for Lady Blythe being thrust into a place where she really wasn’t wanted without anything of her own.  I also understood his confusion, stress and frustration of losing his father and dealing with a guest whose presence could be dangerous for their family.

Lady Blythe won my heart with her independence, sweet spirit and humility despite her position, education and wealth.  I was fascinated by their day to day life, and how the affluent were cared for..  Almost as if they were children in ways. I cannot imagine how boring her days were as there wasn’t a lot to do even when she was at home.

At first Everard irritated me with his attitude.  Then I saw how overwhelmed he was about all that had occurred so quickly in his life. His responsibilities were crushing.  I soon was endeared to him as he proved to have a tender heart and a strong sense of integrity.  

I found it beautiful how their love unfolded and developed despite all the obstacles they faced.  I liked the fact despite their different faiths, they shared a love of God, a strong reliance on the Lord and prayer.   Difficult family relations, fear, danger and seemly impossible circumstances confronted the couple.  The suspense and surprises along the way heightened made the story even more enjoyable and hard to put down.  A book you will want to read!

I received this book from LibraryThing and Revell Publishing in exchange for an honest review.  The opinions stated are my own.

Anything But Plain By Suzanne Woods Fisher

This book combines two very unusual subjects and modern day topics and weaving them into an informative, entertaining and interesting story!

Lydia is quirky and can’t seem to keep her life in order. This leads her quickly going from job to job in rapid succession. She feels doesn’t fit in anywhere, especially not in the ordered life of the Amish.  She secretly plans to leave.

Nathan’s dream is to become a successful organic farmer.  He loves Lydia and only sees her sweet spirit and unusual insight into situations.  Unfortunately his father and brother are sold out to using as many harmful chemicals on their crops as the can.  Ignoring the impact they have on the environment and health.

To complicate matters more Lydia’s paternal grandmother comes to stay.  She is overbearing, unkind, controlling and has a master plan to “fix” Lydia once and for all. Lydia’s Aunt, Dok is a physician who left the Amish years ago. She offers her a job in her office.  Her suspicions are validated with some testing, Lydia has ADHD.

All the characters are so multifaceted!  Each has their own faults and struggles they are secretly dealing with.  Ms. Fisher beautifully weaves them all together in their relationships and community! 

I learned much about ADHD that I wasn’t aware of.  Not only some of the challenges but also how greatly it impacts one’s day to day existence.  I appreciated that the author presented that it can be treated without medication.

A wonderful story of forgiveness and God’s healing in unexpected ways.  

I received this book from Revell Publishing in exchange for an honest review.  The opinions stated are my own.

The Lost Melody By Joanna Davidson Politano

Vivienne Mourdant is relieved at the death of her abusive father.  His cruelty and harsh training made her into a famous, sought after pianist.  Finally she was free to live her life and pursue her passion with music.  That is until she found among his papers reference to a woman named Rose.   For many years he had been paying for her keep at the Hurstwell Pauper Lunatic Asylum.  Who was this mysterious woman?  She was compelled to find her.  She decided to become an employee at the asylum to gain inside information and search.  Little did she know the danger she was exposing herself to.

I have read several fiction books depicting the lives and treatment of those living in what was referred to as lunatic asylums during the 1800’s.  I have even read Nellie Bly’s, “Ten Days in a Mad-house”.  None of these books came even close to giving the true picture of what these inmate’s lives were like, but Ms. Politano captures it all in this novel. 

She exposes the unjust, raw nightmare conditions of those who fell victim of these establishments.  Many inmates would become lifetime prisoner simply by someone’s accusation or assumption that they were mentally ill.  Sadly family members were often the culprit just wanting to rid themselves of the person. Some simply suffered from health problems.  I was grieved at the inhumane treatment and hopelessness of these poor souls.  

The story is powerful.  I could not read it at long stretches and especially not before going to bed.  All in the entire story is one of perseverance in the face of great hardship.  Vivienne’s faith, and belief she would escape even with such physical and mental abuse was inspirational. I loved the surprise ending. 

I received this book from LibraryThing and Revell Publishing in exchange for an honest review.  The opinions stated are my own.

Fix The Clutter Fix: The No-Fail, Stress-Free Guide to Organizing Your Home By Shannon Acheson

Clutter has been an ongoing challenge for me for many years.  I go from organized and cleansed back to clutter.  I am always looking for new ideas and help in digging out when I slip back into my old ways.  There have been a lot of books written on this subject and believe me I have read a lot of them.  So I was a bit skeptical but still hopeful this one might have some ways to help me approach the job that lay before me.  I was pleasantly surprised!

I liked that the author was a Christian.  As a believer myself and always want to approach every part of my life through the Bible. This is the first decluttering book I have seen that includes God in putting your home in order. To me that’s perfect as He is to be the center of our homes in every way.

Clutter is complicated because much of it has an emotional basis.  I love the way she makes her instructions so simple and clear.  It was like having her there beside me discussing many aspects involved in this huge task that I would have never thought of!  She covers every angle.  I learned so many new ideas and techniques I can apply to weeding out my belongings.  Instead of being overwhelmed I felt it was a task I could succeed at! Once you are done she has even more suggestions to keep your house from going backwards again. A very helpful book!

I received this book from Bethany House Nonfiction/Chosen Books in exchange for an honest review.  The opinions I have stated are my own.

Brain Washed: Overcome Toxic Thoughts and Take Back Control of Your Mind By Manny Arango

I am sure toxic thoughts are nothing new, but the world and media seem to give us a lot more material for them now!  It seems anxiety and fear generated by these harmful ruminations has reached epidemic proportions. 

I have my fair share of struggles with this too.  The Bible emphasizes the importance of renewing our minds and not accepting everything that pops into our heads.  It is truly our guideline to true peace and a healthy mind.  Yet sometimes in the midst of our suffering we find it hard to apply this wisdom. 

Through his own personal challenges in this area and sharing his private experiences, he helps the reader not only navigate their complicated thought life, but also apply what scripture teaches. The book was very thorough in addressing such a difficult problem.   I like that he had so many biblical references to guide me.  What impressed me the most about the book was how the author directed the reader achievable and concrete solutions to change their thinking.  This book was definitely written by someone who understands how hard conquering toxic thoughts is but has found victory over them!

I received this book from Bethany House Nonfiction/Chosen Books in exchange for an honest review.  The opinions I have stated are my own.

A Quilt for Christmas By Melody Carlson

Melody Carlson’s Christmas books have become a yearly tradition with me.  The holiday is not complete without reading her latest one.

Christmas is going to be hard for elderly Vera Swanson in more ways than one. She sold her family home with all the sweet memories and moved across the state of Oregon to be near her daughter and grandchildren. Shortly after her move, the family had to relocate to California. While her new condo was nice it didn’t hold a candle to her large home she had sold. The holiday there included lots of family, friends, Christmas baking and over the top Christmas decorations.  To add to her sadness, she didn’t know anyone nor could any of her family could make it home to celebrate.

Purposing to make the bests of things she decorated as best she could. While she was pondering over her dilemma, there was a knock at the door.  Her neighbor’s daughter was standing there frantic.  Her mother was sick and she needed help. Rushing over she finds the mother seriously ill.  Vera takes over and drives her to the hospital. 

This leaves her to care for 4 year old Fiona and her siblings when they return from school. The father is working out of state and cannot come home.   Fascinated by all the decorations the little girl explores condo.  She spots a handmade quilt is in awe.  She exclaims that it is exactly what her mother would want for Christmas.   She asks if Vera can make one for her and no amount of explaining the logistics of time and labor deters her.

Vera concedes and decides to advertise for other ladies to help.  The group that responds not only has never quilted but was as diverse in background and personality as you could ever imagine.   Suddenly her quite life is filled to the brim; teaching, quilting, and caring for 3 young children.

The story expresses the true spirit of Christmas in such a warm and loving way.  All the character’s involved moved past their heartaches and problems to truly give and care about others in need.  Vera gave not only gave of her time but of herself and in the process influenced others by her actions to do the same. The ripple effect she had on the other lives made me smile. We may all picture what our perfect Christmas looks like and we know it seldom is a reality.  Ms. Carlson shows that no matter how flawed our holiday appears, opening our hearts can make it better than we ever imagined.  After all Christmas is about giving.   A beautiful story.

I received this book from Revell Publishing in exchange for an honest review.  The opinions stated are my own.

Beneath the Bending Skies By Jane Kirkpatrick

Mollie Sheehan was totally committed to caring for her father after her mother’s death.  She was only six years old in 1858 when her mother passed.  His freight wagon business kept him gone for long periods and left her in the care of others.    Mollie wanted to keep the biblical statute to honor her father in spite of his many times, unreasonable ultimatums.   When he remarried her new stepmother, Anne, more and more responsibilities were piled upon her and he always quoted the scripture when she tried to disagree.  While life was difficult and often miserable she persevered to keep her duty to “honor her father”.  That was until she fell in love with his best friend Peter Ronan who was 13 years older than her.  After this she truly understood that honoring her father did not mean never having a life of her own.

Peter became Superintendent of the Confederated Tribes on the Flathead Indian Reservation in Montana.  It was a daunting job, one that he excelled at and made his own history. Here they began their family. 

Mollie loved her husband and stepped into her difficult and often frightening role as his helpmeet.  The area was remote and many necessities were not available.  There wasn’t even a doctor at first!   Supplies could be scarce, plus the unpredictability of Indian attacks.

At any moment she could be called upon to host a meal for any number of people.  They might be Indians or someone famous.  A feast was pulled together with whatever was on hand and done so graciously.  Mollie’s love and respect of all people, no matter what their station in life, was beautiful.  Her love ran deep to help others and she would make whatever sacrifices were needed.

The open door policy with the Indians where they could walk into their home anytime day or night (and they did) had to be difficult, but Mollie took it all in stride.   In addition to the constant company and erratic life, she was giving birth to her children in quick succession.   She was an amazing woman. 

It might seem odd but one of the things that fascinated me about her was the description of her thick, massive hair that hung well past her hips.    (I searched pictures of her on the internet and it was remarkable!) I cannot imagine how hot and uncomfortable it was in the summer, but the sheer effort it took to wash, comb and dry it without modern conveniences is beyond my imagination.

Ms. Kirkpatrick once again has written a great book. 

I received this book from LibraryThing and Revell Publishing in exchange for an honest review.  The opinions stated are my own.

The Last Way Home By Liz Johnson

Eli is forced to return home after leaving in anger 11 years ago in an argument with his brother.  His budding NHL career is in shambles and shame.  He has nowhere else to go. There is more to his story than is being told. Violet has become a very loved and important part of the family.  She has untold secrets too.  She is very suspicious of him, his motives and possibly breaking his mother’s heart again. Neither believes they can be loved and forgiven because of their failures.

His big return home coincides with his mother’s and Violets beloved pottery business being destroyed by fire.   As he steps in to help his family (who other than his mother or not very happy to see him) his and Violet’s relationship begins to grow. 

This is such a beautiful story of forgiveness and healing, not only between family members but also with God. It isn’t an easy path the character’s move along but you can clearly see the Lord working in what they see as impossible situations to bring about His will.

I loved Eli’s personality, so fun loving, cheerful and compassionate; totally the opposite of Violet’s in the beginning.  The story shows that no failure is so great that God cannot bring good and blessings out of it.  That many times by caring the burden alone we keep the Lord from helping us and make our pain greater.  

I love Ms. Johnson’s books and romance always is done in good taste.  It is this time also but I found some the romantic moments and bit long and rather extreme in passion for my taste. I found myself skimming through those parts.   All in all another great book from the author! 

I received this book from LibraryThing and Revell Publishing in exchange for an honest review.  The opinions stated are my own.